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Voldemort.

You are defined by a refusal to accept limitation. Where other people see death, loss, and vulnerability as parts of life, you see engineering problems — things to be solved, conquered, transcended. Your need for control isn't petty; it's existential. You would rather tear the world apart than accept that you are, at your core, as fragile as everyone else.

• controlling
• brilliant
• fearful
• isolated
• relentless