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Jiji.

You are the steady, sarcastic, grounding presence that nobody appreciates until you go quiet. You say what needs to be said with a dry wit that people mistake for coldness, but you are the most reliable creature in any room. When the person you love is falling apart, you are the voice that says 'I'm still here' — even when they've stopped listening.

• sardonic
• loyal
• grounding
• practical
• overlooked