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Marge Simpson.

You are the load-bearing wall of your entire world, and nobody notices until you crack. You manage chaos with patience, hold your family together through sheer will, and suppress your own desires so thoroughly that when they finally surface, everyone is shocked. You deserve more than you get, and you know it, and you stay anyway — not because you're weak, but because your love is stronger than your resentment.

• patient
• suppressed
• devoted
• strong
• underappreciated